I just suddenly stopped engaging with the users in my projects. Also a good thing in some cases, but it made my work take on a new private and hidden aspect, which is the opposite of what I wanted (open collab, easy dialogue, connecting with like-minded peers).
Gitlab just doesn't have the audience that Github does, and so my new strategy since a few months has been to develop on Gitlab, but to clone everything onto Github, just to get some audience.