Global Population Crash Isn't Sci-Fi Anymore
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I know that somewhere in the last decade or so, I lost any hope for the future myself, and I think that that is an essential aspect of the desire to have children. This article touched on it as well.
What makes Mars colonies (and moon colonies) interesting to me is a recognition that recorded civilization is only about 12,500 years old. That prior to that the entire planet was experiencing an ice age which lasted ~100,000 years, and prior to that people were already "behaviorally modern" in ways which left impressions in the archeological record.
This suggests that our home planet could have a meteor or ice age shaped surprise for us any moment, and that it might not be a bad idea to have remote backups.
I also think that working to live somewhere other than Earth will teach us much more about exactly why and how Earth is special.
Living on Mars, on the other hand, will require a much higher degree of dependence on others as there are no woods, no food to hunt or farm, and nothing but rock from which to make necessities. Colonizing Mars or a moon will require a great deal of interaction with all the social and technical constructs that anyone wanting to "start over" is seeking to distance themselves from.
I only say this in case we weren't clear on each other's scale argument. Building a cabin and going for a hike is very different from building a new society from scratch. I do think both are desires but the second is the one I'm talking about.
Give those ideas a run, and then you've made a compelling case for subsidizing and bootstrapping the move of dirty heavy industry and mining off-world: metals from the asteroid belt, manufacturing in high orbit - the ecological science to make it more sustainable.
You then also get some economic benefits once you're up and running: off-world industry would find the products of the biosphere very valuable - more so then anything so simple as oil, metal or refined chemicals. Putting a distinct price on keeping the Earth's biodiversity alive and protected because people want to be able to buy "live soil" - to borrow from the expanse - would put us in a much better long term position as a species.
No one believes that mars is going to be a better/easier place to live than earth. It's idiotic, and only spouted by people that don't like the idea of Mars, and said to make "marsers" look like idiots in association.
The chief value of Mars has two parts. First, it opens up the first true frontier we’ve had in over a century and could serve as a sort of societal pressure relief valve. Second, as soon as there’s people living on Mars the impetus for developing technology to make living there (and in space) more safe, sustainable, and comfortable increases dramatically, which is a critical step in achieving true mastery of human spaceflight and ensuring that the species is not forever stuck in the bottom of Earth’s gravity well.
Some may argue that the moon can serve these purposes as well and that may be true to a degree, but its proximity is a liability. Moon inhabitations are close enough to be well within the sphere of Earth’s political influence even if it achieves self-sustainability, which itself is unlikely because Earth is always there as a convenient source of supplies and escape hatch, just a week away. There’s a certain level of necessary commitment and autonomy that comes with building a civilization on Mars which I believe is key.
People need to believe that the future will be better than the present, especially when the present sucks. If you don't have that, what is there?
Considerable numbers of people accept that the resource draw of current population numbers at present and ever growing levels of consumption pose increasing risk to human habitation.
They're also bright enough to be opposed to entering a time in which half the human population dies.
Who would want children now? Only African countries. Looking at their present living conditions, their lives will probably get a lot better.
People look for Mars because they're looking for a new frontier, not because of 'the planet dying'. They long for a revival of the days of exploration when maps were filled with 'here there be dragons'. They do not want to 'flee' earth, they want to expand beyond it.
This newly revived wanderlust is a positive thing, not a negative. It is far better for people to be looking forward to rockets to Mars than to rockets to their capital cities. Let's make it happen and let's ignore the doomsayers of the NYT who'd rather have us repent, all ye sinners for the end is nigh.
Not dying by itself, but rather WE are killing it.
Do they look unhappy? I don’t know. All of our friends with children post pictures of their kids in mundane everyday settings nonstop on Instagram so I almost have too much information on how they live, at least outwardly.
But it’s probably taboo to openly say you’re unhappy about having a child. The closest I’ve come is seeing some cracks while talking to one of my best friends about how tired he is.
Who will be more happy when we’re 60 or 70? Even that I’m not sure. I know plenty of elderly people who have little to no contact with their adult kids. Some with kids who are estranged and hate them. Is that any better than not having kids at all?
Even a horrific outcome answers that question.
There is no other way to do do.
Are you wealthy? Robust family support? Low volatility in your living and work situations? Strong relationship that will endure what children incur? Might be fine; without those components, you’re gonna have a bad time (statistically speaking and from a preponderance of the data).
> There is no other way to do do.
You can come to a conclusion you made a poor choice and still choose to do the best you can because it’s the right thing to do.
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(n=1, ymmv)
If one wants something more like the feeling of a life meaningfully lived - it will take energy no matter what form that meaning takes.
Fwiw I am definitely more tired as a parent then when I was single but it’s what I would call “good tired” - work you are choosing to do.
Then you have the period before they are 11 or so, when they are just pure magic to be around. You get to see the world through their eyes. You get to be around someone who is always eager to learn from you and who thinks you’re amazing.
And then you have a teenager and your relationship matures and deepens (hopefully anyway) and although there are often difficulties, there can also be a kind of friendship there with deep meaningfulness. And/or someone who will make fun of you and take your ego down a peg or two.
For me, finding meaning in life has long been a struggle. Is it the pursuit of pleasure? Is it the pursuit of knowledge? So much of all that is ephemeral. How about, instead, sacrifice? Putting others first? Investing in future generations?
One thing I do believe for sure: having a child makes most people wiser and less self-centered and selfish. That alone is worth the fatigue.
Sample size of 1, but even looking around my generally stable middle to upper middle class social circle, I feel like despite putting your best effort in, it’s a 50:50 coin toss that you’ll be in your later years with a wonderful relationship with your adult children versus having them be virtual strangers or even estranged. Is that considered meaningful, and worth the sacrifices?
I see a lot of elderly people who never see or hear from their kids other than a phone call during birthdays and maybe a visit during holidays, even if they live not too far away. I would hate to be in that kind of relationship with my future child.
My wife and I see our parents multiple times a month, frequently eat out together, and even air travel together at least once a year. I would love that kind of relationship with my child, but I feel this is a massive edge case, not the norm, especially in American society.
And I suspect you have more control over your outcomes than you think. How you raise your kids matters. Them seeing you dedicate time to your parents sends a good message than other kids may not be seeing for example.
Imagine (like I never have to) that the man who raised you says to you: "if I could go back in time I definitely wouldn't have children again."
Most honest thing he ever said. I agree with him.
One interesting thing, Italy in the early 90s experienced a big dip and then recovered somewhat. Anyone have any ideas about what might've happened there?
South Korea, a big dip around 2015/2016.
But also, millions of people in the US have cats, kids, or both. So while I am sure your story is true it doesn’t sound representative.
That's a nice standout for me. Taking into account the humans only aspect, it's good to see that those people are happier and finding more self fulfillment than in the alternative scenario.
Of course that is just in a vacuum, though it does show that a huge part of the perception of this "problem" is a system that unnaturally requires more of us.
Let’s colonise planets; population will pick up on the New Worlds as people will feel it as their duty again. Here, not so much as breeding cannon fodder is not a great stimulus.
To be fair, I am a part of the problem as well. The opportunity loss for people in their late 20s to have a child is huge. It's even bigger for women, so I really can't blame anyone. And that's all on top of the usual "gloom and doom" thoughts when you think what your child could be facing in today's world.
[1] - https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2021/11/19/growing-s...
If you're talking about the 1950s a non-trivial percentage of married American women at that time routinely took stimulants and barbiturates.
It takes so long to feel safety your near the end of the fertile window at least in the case of my wife and I for us it was the '08 recession for others something else I'm sure; we've built a pretty shitty world
my siblings who luckily missed that window had 2-3 kids each and still struggle financially even with "decent" jobs and education.. I can help them with that but that's not the case for others
The world has always been harsh and unforgiving. When did humans create a better world, and how do you quantify that? I think we're still very well off.
Alternatively, if people collectively see the world as a place they are responsible for making better, and that it's better for each individual to do so, then the world becomes a better place. This is hard to get to because "better" at scale is really hard to define. People start worrying about things like human-induced climate change, other environmental pollution, social welfare, etc. Even if we can collectively agree on things that are globally "good," sometimes making things better in one arena causes problems in another arena of "global good."
Will write a negative article no matter what happens.
Although it must be said, this fertility collapse is easily the best thing that could be happening in the world of demographics. Overpopulation is much less pleasant for more people. The problems with under-population are still concerning. The part that worries me it who looks after all the old people who can't care for themselves? It isn't much fun dying alone and incapacitated.
“We have to build a world where human society retreats and tens of millions die alone unsupported, because [insert warning about centuries away based on dubious assumptions].”
We don’t have to, we’re celebrating failure because of nebulous future concerns that seem post hoc rationalizations.
I think at a societal level, abuses of psychology in marketing, PR, propaganda, and all its euphemisms have driven us collectively mad.
The future is lots of things, but stable or predictable it ain't.
Primarily the starvation.
It’s the kind of thing where childless people will lecture you on the impossibility of having kids all day long and meanwhile there’s someone in exactly the same situation living next door who’s got 3-4 kids and is way happier and more fulfilled.
Recently I started to think of religion as a sort of Chesterton a fence. We thought all the focus on the family in religion is just quaint but perhaps it’s just codification of safeguards that allowed a wiser minority to escape the previous analogous collapse.
Scientology just seems like one most people agree is unbelievable.
Or maybe different life goals are valid for different people, and there's no one true path to happiness and you need to make up your own mind? Just maybe?
For some reason this topic invariably includes a bunch of people lecturing everyone else about what they should do - or mistaking someone discussing their own preferences as judging there's.
Someone saying "I don't think I could cope with having children" isn't telling you that you couldn't cope - though you might do well to consider your own expectations.
I have a child, and I would never presume to tell anyone they definitely should or shouldn't have their own children. I will happily relate my feelings on the experience so far if asked.
Discussing one’s choices is different than painting a topic with a broad brush and some of the anti kid voices are hysterical in their tone and persistence.
It’s the difference between “I chose not to have children because…” and “we are screwed nobody can afford to have a cat much less a kid and the world is going to end next month anyway”
You hit the nail on the head with a megaton hammer.
I am sick of dingbats who insist I marry and have children. Fuck off and mind your own business, I say to them.
I have many things I want to do in life and not enough time to do them all, let alone with time wasted to concentrated bullshit I quite literally don't give a fuck about. Life is way too short.
// I have many things I want to do in life and not enough time to do them all, let alone with time wasted to concentrated bullshit I quite literally don't give a fuck about.
So, I've been to Japan a few times and as much as I love everything about it, seeing the obvious prevalence of old people doing stuff and maintaining the way of life raises the super obvious question - who is going to continue any of these? If Japan and its culture matter, then as someone who cares about it, are you totally fine into it fading away into obscurity in the next few decades?
The answer could be "yes, that's not what I care about" and that's fine I am just curious if that's your answer. But I am also curious on the flip side the sentiment of someone who on one hand cares about their country/culture but on the other side "literally doesn't give a fuck" about probably the only thing in your control to help it.
Again not trying to preach what is right here, asking the question of how you hold these two things in your head?
They seem overall happy? A lot of their happiness seems to be derived from their children. But they’ve also outright told my wife and I they are envious of our dink lifestyle.
On the other side, my wife and I kind of do want one kid. Definitely no more than one though.