It makes sense to start with Verilator, because it's fast, easy, and open source, but it seems like it'll fall short on a lot of metrics. It seems like the big challenge is going to be making sure your tool can do everything that chip designers actually need to do. I remember spending almost a week bringing up gate-level simulation, which was a huge pain in the ass because our design used an ILM-based hierarchy. Handling things like X-propagation, timing constraints, mixed-language designs, and non-synthesizable models for mixed-signal IP is going to be really tricky, especially because they work differently in every simulator.
Is there any reason why you're not starting by targeting FPGA developers instead of semiconductor developers? It seems like the Verilator flow will do a much better job of fulfilling their needs, which are generally simpler, than fulfilling the needs of an ASIC team. Obviously in the long run, semiconductor developers are the bigger market, but you need far more features to be able to sell to ASIC teams.