- It's hard to find a "good-enough" graph implementation. The best hashtable is only a handful of percent better than the built-in ones. The best graph impl is 1000x or more better than any generic built-in one could be, so there's much more incentive to specialize (and people already specialize hashtables for just a handful of percent speedup!)
- The baseline complexity level of implementing a reasonable hashtable is fairly high, even if for a small dataset. The baseline complexity of implementing a graph algorithm for a small dataset is pretty low, and the real problems come in later / at larger scale. So in graphs there's less incentive to learn a complex library's API when "I could just hack it myself," unlike for hashtables where the API is simple and doing it myself is much harder.