Didn't stop you from selling your SW for the Windows platform without paying Microsoft a dime or Microsoft having any way to stop you. Look at WinRar or the thousands of other small companies who made a living selling SW for Windows without paying Microsoft a cent.
>The consumer experience for iPhone users is much better than that of Windows users back in the day.
UX is subjective and debatable. And there's a difference between one having poor UX, and one being "mean spirited towards users".