Couldn't be more wrong. It's not even remotely comparable.
Yes Microsoft had a 90% OS market share but it was an open OS running on open HW platform wich had many players, so users had the freedom to install whatever non-Microsoft SW and HW they wanted on it and SW developers could develop software for it without needing Microsoft's permission for sales or distribution on their OS, or giving them a 30% cut of their profits (other than buying a MS Visual C++ license maybe).
While Apple might have an "only" 60% market share now (though it's currently 87% amongst US teens today[1] so it's only a matter of time till it reaches 90s' Microsoft levels of monopoly amongst US gen-pop) but it's a closed OS running on closed HW with attestation, so costumers and SW developers have absolutely no choice but to run only Apple approved content on them. Vastly more restrictive than what Microsoft of the 90's could even dream of.
>It was a lot easier to see how Microsoft was being mean-spirited for consumers versus Apple.
How? Just like Apple, Microsoft was only being mean spirited to SW and HW vendors and competitors, not to consumers.
[1] https://www.barrons.com/articles/apple-stock-teens-iphone-e5...