This frankly isn't any different than my iPhone where no other browser can become the default!
On iOS, the third-party browsers that are available are crippled (no client-side JavaScript unless you use Apple's implementation). And even those crippled browsers, like Opera Mini, can't be set as the default browser (e.g. for when you click on a link in an email).
There's a bit more info about this here: http://www.opera.com/mobile/specs/
In particular, "The rendering engine is on Opera’s server."
Around here, Apple can be as abusive and monopolistic as it likes, and nobody will raise their eyes from their MBPs at all.
I'd say the community here is far more understanding of Microsoft than, say, the Slashdot crowd.