The good news is that if you diagnose food allergies early and start someone on oral immunotherapy when they’re extremely young (<2 years old), the early evidence is that you can build up significant tolerance with basically no side effects. That’s the boat my child is in - we started them on peanut OIT at just over 1 year old, and the worst symptoms were a skin breakout or two, and today they’d probably be able to eat a couple peanuts with no reaction.
The downside is they have to continue their daily dose forever. There are some interesting alternatives coming into the market though.
Edit: they will still need to always keep epipens nearby, but at least now there’s no fear of anaphylaxis when someone nearby on the plane eats a bag of peanuts.