https://blog.koehntopp.info/2024/02/13/the-matrix-trashfire.... explains why Matrix is lacking market share, and I think Signal's decision to be aggressively closed is due to a justified fear of becoming that.
I've criticized Matrix before for their "protocol-first" approach and "too neutral" stance towards clients (which they've changed somewhat it seems; previously [1] was a table of clients with no clue what to choose, now it at least has "featured clients"). I feel they repeated the same mistakes as XMPP, which has not improved their client list.[2] Protocol nerds will say that's a good thing, but all it really does is ensure your protocol remains marginal because most people just get confused. People choose software, not protocols.
But you can write a high-quality client and a specification and allow people to write their own apps. IMHO Signal is needlessly restrictive. Sure, focus on your own implementation and the quality of that first. 100% the right decision. But there's no reason to not at least allow some things down the line. Signal is just a few months shy of their tenth birthday – they're well past the "ensure the quality of our official client"-phase.
Friend 2 insists on using their client because it has dark mode, and for the average user, what they see isn't "friend 2 is extra and has a broken client", they see "that app fails to send pictures about a quarter of the time, let's use whatsapp".
The mantra of every network that stays mediocre and never achieves critical mass
It complains that cyberfurz.chat is a "server with profanity in the name".
...why?