Is It OK to Be Mean to a Chatbot?
Is it OK to Be Mean to Spreadsheet Software?
Is it OK to Be Mean to Photoshop?
Is it OK to Be Mean to Chrome?
Just because you anthropomorphize software, doesn't mean the rest of us have to. All of these questions are ridiculous and the obvious answer is that there's nothing there to be mean to. They aren't things that can perceive and feel your attitude or treatment; there is no "mean" happening.