Writes simple and then drops GraphQL and K8s.
Complexity for the sake of complexity is foolish.
This exceeds my ability to suspend disbelief.
You seem to be implying that all complexity is the result of an informed decision made by someone but this does not match my experience in the field.
My life would be much easier if this were true. One day, maybe....
Show me your problem, I'll show you how to solve it with the least amount of code and dependencies.
"Simple architectures" and "boring technology" are slogans meant to keep technologies like GraphQL out of your stack. Writing less code and getting features for free is how one describes "exciting technology".