The cat pictures captioned “divorced men after 40 on dating apps” is more like all men on dating apps.
They take the worst photos. It actually could be a good strategy, I’ve gone on some dates with guys who had terrible pictures more out of boredom, and then turned up and been like… wow he is way better looking than the photo.
Meanwhile - I reckon guys would be hard pressed to find a women on a dating app that hasn’t used a filter.