Other factors: Erlang/OTP base libraries are written in Erlang, so it feels like there is less friction when using them. With a lot of recent language improvements in Erlang like maps, better command line completion, sigils, etc., I feel like I am not missing too much from Elixir's ergonomics.
One caveat might be if I had do a web app, then Phoenix just has a lot of goodies that are nice to have, and maybe then only then I might consider Elixir.
And not make it sound like I am berating Elixir, and to balance things out, I'd like to say the Elixir community is amazing and the collaboration and improvement they've brought to Erlang/OTP are significant in the recent years. It's nice to collaborate and be part one one large BEAM VM community.