It's horrible that this is so prevalent in the tech community (and really any community, but I come from tech, so I'll just speak from what I know). It probably doesn't mean much coming from some random commenter, but I can assure you that there are a lot of great people (male and female) out there that don't think or carry on this way.

That said, my areas of knowledge are in HTML, CSS, JavaScript and PHP. What I know in PHP could probably be translated to a lot of other languages. If you have any questions, you can certainly throw'em my way. Here are a bunch of ways to find me: http://fredhq.com/contact

And that goes for anyone reading this. I'm not always available (obviously), and I may not have the answer, but I can bounce ideas back and forth which sometimes is just what is needed.