I feel the same way about alcohol, it’s 20+ years behind the stigma curve though.
I'm not claiming that alcohol is better, just saying that in terms of getting of nuisances, you can choose to completely opt out of alcohol if you so choose, while in some places it's hard to completely avoid cigarette smoke from people around you.
The negative social externality may not be "second hand drinking", but it exists nonetheless.
It probably averages out to the equivalent of a beer every week or two.
In reality its just sleep, anime, and weed.