For NGinx I have been able to make use of HAProxy and Apache just fine. Long ago Apache was slower than NGinx but ever since APR 1.7 and Apache 2.4 there are about the same performance wise. Some here don't like the configuration syntax but I am used to it.
There is JetBrains, for example.
But there is also core-js which is a little polyfill library being used by like way more than half of high profile websites. Also written by a Russian national.
If you excise all contributions by Russian nationals to PostgreSQL or the Linux kernel, they will be left in a not very runnable state, I’m afraid.
On the other hand, it’s not like you are giving them money directly, unless you do; I also can see that in, say, both Linux and PostgreSQL there is also enough people from the “geopolitical opposition” so that even if the Russian contributors are asked by some stern people from the Apparat to sneak something backdoory in, it will be sniffed rather quickly and prevented from going much further.
So tl;dr is that there is no simple response.
It’s sometimes beneficial to pose as an EU-based business if a purely Russian business was either sanctioned or considered too risky/dirty/shady to deal with.
So while Czechs don’t like to be equated with Russians, not all of them would quite sing „běž domů, Ivane” or share the feeling.
There is also the mighty bystander effect at play: surely, someone else is going to look at it. Someone else will have time to test it. He's our hero, the Someone-Else-Man!
Mind you, it only takes to catch you once, and your mountain of reputation will poof out of existence in an eyeblink. This is the price.
Mind you, asking to downplay a vulnerability "because it's in an experimental module not built by default" would make me suspicious on the simple grounds that even if a module is experimental, you ship it alongside your stable code, and for sure someone builds it and is using it. Depending on who those users might be, there could be also parties interested in them not patching the vulnerability for as long as possible.
This sounds paranoid for sure, but your being paranoid doesn't mean there's nobody out to get you!
But at least I have the option, dammit! Contrary to the proprietary software where your problem will be diligently filed into a ticket, given a number, and be left to rot.
Which doesn't change the fact that people are lazy and do turn the blind eye... :-( and sometimes the Someone-Else-Man won't come and save the day. But that's just life.