I’ve found that it’s not just the photos but the writing and content on profiles.

It was surprising to me how many people had really poorly written profiles or just photos.

I’m guessing I’m a 4-5 but have matched with really attractive, and more importantly, very smart, successful, and interesting people. At first I was surprised but women tell me that many people on dating apps put in little effort or just can’t do basic things like carry a conversation beyond “hey” and “your [sic] beautiful.”

I find that the apps are useful for meeting lots of people in person and testing out chemistry. I’m not sure a better way to meet people IRL.

I’m in my 40s and only have my own experience so YMMV.

I’m curious how you knew half the women you met had an STI. Are you asking this?