That’s like looking only in the drawer, and saying, there is no evidence here that a cat lives in this house. When in fact the cat is just upstairs.
If you include other galaxies, then they would've had to have been silent since the beginning of time.
Also, non-living matter spontaneously forms into living matter by no known mechanism.
If you're going to believe something religiously, make it something less trivial than muh aliens.
Like just throw in the towel bro. You're adding epicycles on top of epicycles when the answer is right in front of you. You're just too stubborn to admit you were wrong.