Though if you want affordability, that leaves Chicago and Philly.
NYC sucks in that sense though, as a lot of industries that are conglomerated in NYC haven't ensured salaries keep up with those in High Finance and Tech
At least Boston has relatively affordable suburbs and Bay Area level wages, DC has plenty of federal jobs that pay competitively, and SF has the larger tech industry (which is still going great despite a couple high profile layoffs)
Also more comparable populations that way too.
SF and NYC do have neighborhoods like this, but those occupy very tiny portions of those cities comparably to Miami.
Miami-Dade is very sprawly, like Los Angeles.
This is unsurprising as Miami is a relatively new city that expanded post-WW2, like LA.
The cities I listed above were already fairly high density before the automobile was invented
It's even worse than LA. The LA metro has better connectivity across the city of LA than Miami Metrorail does in Miami.
> I explored Brickell and Miami Beach
Did you walk or take public transit to Little Havana or Little Haiti?
Same way most people in the NY Metro live in less walkable boroughs or suburbs.
And it's the same story in any other "international" city - be it London, Tokyo, Paris, etc
I love NYC. I don't mind going into Boston or such for the day, but there's nothing like NYC on east coast. It's fantastic.
This kind of reflexive defensiveness by some New Yorkers feels annoying to the rest of us
The thing that NYC really has going for it is that the rest of the country is a giant suburban dystopia.
none of the things that you're saying are true compared to my experiences (or those of my friends) in any way that i can think of as meaningful.
the only city i've been to that feels like it's captured the same "vibe" as NYC, for me, has been Paris.
Tokyo was more impressive in its sprawl and history (and obviously cleanliness), but there is a sense of Japanese monoculture that saturates everything in a way that is almost tactile. not in a bad way, but definitely such that i felt like something was "missing" during my visit.
Singapore gets really close to the same feeling, but for all of its heterogeneity there's an undercurrent of authoritarian sterility that made it very difficult to feel comfortable (Disneyland with the Death Penalty, indeed).
anyway this is already pretty long winded so i should probably stop talking, but NYC has a lot "going for it" besides the rest of the US just sort of being a suburban hellscape. at some point i'll move out, but living here has been a really comforting reminder that international views such as yours of American cities are incorrect.
The day I left I moved out over a pool of dried blood from a stabbing in front of my door the night before. I've lived in over 20 countries since then and not experience anything similar except maybe in Canada, which has similar drug problems as the US.
But Flushing is too far from Manhattan and too close to La Guardia. I'd gladly pay more not to listen to that shit all the time, the car noise in the city is bad enough.
Most immigrant communities agglomerate in Queens - from Korean to Chinese to Azeri Jewish to Bangladeshi to Jamaican
The homeless are a problem, but New York has them too.