A lost hiker ignored rescuers' phone calls, thinking they were spam (2021)
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Of course, hiking on a mountain is an exceptional case, where you might reasonably expect that people will set out to search for you (possibly putting themselves in danger) if you are gone for an unreasonable amount of time. I wonder did they try text or leave a VM.
(As an aside, "The hiker had gotten disoriented in an ordeal that lasted about 24 hours" reminded me of the "fugue state" from Breaking Bad.)
I think there's been phone spam for a long time, it's just that previous generation's phone spam was so innocent. An unsolicited salesman calls and tries to sell you some magazines. If you actually buy the magazines, you'll actually get the magazines.
Compare that to today. The caller records your voice and even saying "hello" might allow them to clone your voice and then use your voice to scam your spouse. If you buy their magazines (or whatever the modern equivalent is), you'll probably get it, but also they might just steal your money and sell any information you give them on the personal data markets.
This is the same in advertising too. Old TV advertisements told you about a product and then hoped you'd buy it when you went to the store, fair enough. Compare that to today's YouTube advertisements that are often straight up scams and merely watching the ad or viewing the associate website is revealing information about yourself which will be sold unregulated.
Is this a rosey view of the past? Are we just suffering late-stage capitalism or is there something more specific we can blame these changes on?
I would say I get about 20 spam calls for every legitimate call I get (1-2 legitimate calls per day, 20-40 spam calls).
That being said I'm probably exactly the type of person to have a full VM with no legitimate messages in it.
Agreed, but 2FA makes this a non-starter. I don't want to find out a year from now that I can't access ___ service because they have my old number on file and won't let me change it.
As it is I can't get into my bank account to pay my phone bill if it's past due and service gets suspended. It's infuriating.
You'll soon get taken off the lists.
and/or you're answering more than 0% of unknown callers, validating the line,
or someone has intentionally signed you up for marketing lists.
This is an insane situation to consider dealing with. I have three to five phone lines depending, less than 3 spam calls total per month.
Can't answer the calls, ever, or you're "marked" - simple as that.
Really sorry to hear this.
Since you mentioned not enjoying it, and for the reader in a similar situation, a suggestion: use an internet number, with totally different area code from your received calls, so you have a prayer.
My elderly father is in a care facility, and I am POA (Power Of Attorney to make decisions for him), and well-documented point of contact for him with his doctor and the hospital. He fell and broke his hip at the care facility on Jan 2. around midnight. He got transferred to the local hospital as a result.
First, the care facility failed to call me at all. This was discussed with them after the fact and they know they screwed up and admitted it. That's kind of an issue but not the biggest one.
Then the hospital tried calling me at 6 AM (6 hours later). The number was the general "call out" number not a particular office or doctor. They left no message. My father had been in the hospital for another issue just the week before, so I didn't bother following up figuring it was just some early morning administrative thing related to the previous visit.
Then the hospital called my mother at noon (12 hours after the admission) asking her some question about his hip surgery to be planned. She has no idea what it's about. She asks me and I have no idea what it's about. I call the hospital and find out he's been there for 12 hours. What the actual hell...
They claimed they couldn't leave a message due to privacy issues. But they could have said, "This is Dr. X calling about your father - please call me back." Or tried calling me repeatedly until I did pick up (like SAR tried in this story).
In the end there weren't any specific issues where I as POA had to make some decision for him, nor was he on the verge of death and the family needing to be notified. It could have been a lot worse. But still, it was really, really dropping the ball when it came to attempting to connect with someone who really should be connected with.
Hello, who's that? The hospital Thanks, just the punchline I needed
But I've also had the absurd opposite, where I think the hospital IT system must be triggering some workflow events and it causes a thundering herd problem.
One example: Visiting my in-patient relative, I was called into a hallway by a nurse, as the doctor would be coming to discuss something. Before we could even start, I got an incoming call from the same hospital system which turned out to be a care coordinator trying to discuss the same patient. While I was trying to triage that call and not waste the doctor's time too much, I heard the call waiting beep. That turned out to be an affiliated social worker spawned onto the same case. I let her go to voicemail. Within 5 minutes, I got another call from a durable equipment vendor who was processing an order just put in for the patient.
This became a repeating pattern. Along with all the other stress of handling my family member's illness, this pushed me too far. For the first time in my life, I started to flinch or startle at incoming calls and notifications. It got worse with frequent and randomized calls from the relative, who suffers from dementia. I started to form a new understanding of the stories I'd heard of younger generations having phone-based anxieties.
Yeah, but if you answer, then the spammers know it’s a real number!
1) Don't answer the phone
2) Don't answer your door
Simply because of the amount of scammers that are out there.
When you're in a suburb, a stranger directly outside your house for any amount of time is far less likely to be a friendly just going about their day,
like it would be in a small town or in a city.
Learned reactions. Ugly overreactions, often. But, learned.
I don't answer the phone or the door unless I know someone is coming or I'm expecting a parcel. And I have a huge 6 D cell flashlight by my bed (that I will not hesitate to use as a weapon)
Granted I don't live in a suburb but in an inner city in Europe.
I've gone into the back country many times where getting hung up in some way, going off-route, or even an ankle sprain could lead to the possibility of an uncomfortable bivy. It's something I consider acceptable risk. I'm not going to call for help unless I believe it's a life or death situation.
but the real failure here is that phone technology is still so bad that it is not possible to reliably identify callers. caller-id exists, but feels like a hack, is not working relibaly, and is spoofable.
is there no way to have a trustable registry of numbers (not all of them but say any service that legitimately needs to be able to cold-call people) that can be built into every phone? a whitelist of known numbers?
I'm not sure what this trailhead is like, but it's not unheard of for someone to call rangers who call SAR for something as simple as a car parked at a trailhead after it's closed.
Just this morning I ignored an early morning call from someone that was trying to make an appointment for something I was loosely engaged in. I ignored the call because I thought it was a spammer and lamented spammers are calling so early. Randomly later it occurred to me that maybe it was the person trying to make an appointment. Thankfully they left a voicemail.
I think we expect emails or texts now.
Also, I see office workers ignore calls now because of digital phones showing the number or caller ID. Old desk phones didn’t really show who was calling, so everyone picked up the phone because it was a business call. Now you can’t get anyone to pick up the phone.
It’s sickeningly ironic that the company responsible for the network literally cannot use it to contact their own customers, because they have let it become such a cesspool of noise and bullshit.
Wireless companies must make money from spam calls, right? That must be why they allow them? My mental model is that with sufficient motivation they could do much better, but maybe I’m wrong.
As ever, the only "sufficient motivation" they'll ever have is government regulation.
Wouldn't be surprised if the plurality of phone call revenue is spammers, and then there is no way to solve the problem but to make fines (to the provider) higher than the revenue.
Still, they should have texted. I'm so annoyed when someone calls me multiple times without attempting async communication.
My carrier does voice-to-text transcription of the message and texts it to me.
The headline makes it sound like the hiker was expecting rescuers to be out searching, but in this case it sounds like that wasn't so.
A lost hiker ignored rescuers' phone calls, thinking they were spam - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29001181 - Oct 2021 (15 comments)
Sounds to me like the hiker was very experienced, and ultimately had no issues at all reaching safety...
I find it interesting that someone called SAR and didn't call/text the hiker?