I'd love a realistic alternative to virtualbox on Windows for running Debian as a development environment.

I've tried hypervisor but I can't get networking to work, and trying to set up another adapter gives me a bsod on every computer I try it on.

Wsl2 almost works, but I can't really use Intellij to its full capacity. I'm under the impression that GUI application support is coming so maybe that will change. I'd really love for this to work so I can learn docker, but virtualbox performance is non-existent when wsl is turned on.

Qemu feels incomplete or at least overly complicated compared to Virtualbox.