Utterly ridiculous.
Utterly ridiculous.
Oh God. A job interview isn't a therapy session. Why would people ever feel this type of questioning is appropriate for a job interview? How would someone who's dealt with intense trauma during some of those "chapters" respond? Especially given the power imbalance in a job interview, and the pressure you feel to give an answer.
I'd like to believe that I would be willing to politely decline to answer questions like this, thank the interviewer and tell them there just seems to be a mismatch, and walk out of the door. But I don't know if I'd be able to, due to the stress of a job interview.
They asked me the same question and I paused for a moment and replied "excuse me, but this question makes me feel uncomfortable; I'm here for an interview not for a date!".
They realized they overdid it and asked me actual questions.
Eventually decided I was the right candidate for them, but until they decided to reply back, I already had found job elsewhere.
Why do they ask such type of questions anyway?!
They are incompetent at doing their jobs.