Reading the rest of this thread, it seems that the anti-anti-natalists (to which I gravitate more closely) are misrepresenting the anti-natalists' view and that they don't actually expect everyone to be anti-natalist?
It just means you don't want to have kids. It doesn't imply any kind of belief structure.
Who knew HN had such a trad subculture.
Does not wanting children rule you out from being a role model for them (or anyone else) or being "exemplary"?