Actually only EVs above 2 Metric Tons are concerned, which is fair IMO.
For an EV most of the emissions are created during production, so the less production the better. It's best to have one sufficiently flexible car, even if it's bigger, since that minimises production emissions.
Also the large car is not just used to take the kids on vacations, but typically all the time.
Still in towns like Paris you should favor bicycle or public transportation. You can also have a smaller EV and rent a larger one for the long trips.