On many guns, switching the safety to the "fire" position exposes a red dot, red meaning "hot" or "fire".
Red lights on top of towers isn't trying to tell planes and helicopters to stop, its telling planes to exercise caution around the tower.
Red at a traffic light means there's a danger so you stop. Green means it's safe to proceed.
Red on a gun safety switch means danger because it's live.
The red wire is live and dangerous. The green wire is earth and safe. (at least true in Europe).