I understand you couldn't have done anything, but on the other hand, could they have?
My understanding is that the people that were breached were breached outside 23andMe, and their credentials were simply used to log into 23andMe. Not attachking you or anything but haven't you opted in to sharing potentially sensitive information to people you don't know, basically making this information as secure as these people's accounts are? Or, for that matter, as secure as these people are?
Perhaps they could highlight that a bit more (I wouldn't think of that probably if I used this feature). But that's just as much "just" a mistake as "just using a feature".