I have an impeccable valley girl accent and just shy of thirty years of production sysadmin experience. Debiasing is hard work, but it’s worth it.
Biases exist for a reason. If I'm not hearing the detail I'm looking for or the sincerity I can trust, I know I'm not your audience.
(Your comment makes sense otherwise, no argument here — I’m only here for the valley girl subthread.)
I think your comment makes sense, and I appreciate the way you detailed this.