> I question whether pathologizing differences is that useful.
Homosexuality was first referred to as a "Sexual Deviation" and a "Sociopathic personality disturbance". It's no longer considered a disorder.
Transgenderism (Transsexualism) was referred to as a "psychosexual disorder" or "gender identity disorder". It's no longer considered a disorder but gender dysphoria still is.
Autism is still a disorder, and nothing but a disorder. Autism is defined medically, wholly by weakness, as if that's all autism is. Something we should maybe cure one day, or come up with a pre-natal test for so be can have abortions to ensure such people aren't born.
The "Gold standard" treatment for autism Adaptive Behaviour Analysis has some common heritage between the treatment of Autism and Transgenderism, which involved using adversives (torture), to get people to act in a more gender conforming or less autistic way. I still think about that. If you use essentially the same treatment to modify the behavour of a transgender person or an autistic person, if you do it to the former it's a hate crime, if you do it to the latter it's a medical necessity[1]. I find that VERY revealing as to medicines attitude towards the Autistic, that they are the broken ones who need to change to fit our glorious and perfect society.
The pathologization of Autism is a crime against humanity and probably the first or second most evil thing that has happened to me throughout my entire life. Autism wasn't always a pathology - go 50 years back and nobody considered Autistic here would be considered Autistic by a doctor, wouldn't be considered "Disordered" by their peers, they might have been considered odd but not disordered. Nowadays, there's too much money in pathologizing people as disordered, everybody from parents to schools to doctors to social workers to the autistic people themselves benefit.
I see the status quo as fucked up and firmly believe modern psychiatry has greatly compromised Autistics quality of life through their hateful views on Autism which rub off on the wider popuation. When these esteemed medical experts call you disordered - why shouldn't everybody else think you are?
The way forward I see is how we handled homosexuality and transgenderism - de-pathologise being different from other people - but diagnose people with mental conditions that impair quality of life which are associated with Autism - and use those diagnosis's to allocate support and funding. This model also lets you make more sense of things like how both the richest man in the world and profoundly disabled people who can't hold down a job could both be "Autistic".
[1]ABA is not necessarily evil, it's more how it's used for the purpose of making autistics less autistic or transgender people less transgender which is philosophically fucked up