You are making many faulty assumptions, attacking a culture you clearly do not understand in the least. To call something braindamaged in hacker culture is well understood as a personal value judgement with certain connotations. It has absolutely nothing to do with bullying, "darkness", or negativity.
If anything, it is you who is being a bully, barging in and telling us how we should behave without even grasping who we are and how we are behaving now.