It's hard to find data on a lot of this. If you talk to divorce attorneys, they will tell you it's common. Here are some stats on my state. The initial order is granted, typically ex-parte, 89% of the time. Only 18% are granted a final PFA. Almost half of all cases are either withdrawn or an no-show. These are some abysmal numbers. They are granted readily and the vast majority don't stand up when challenged, even considering the lower burden of proof. I can't did the article, but there was a retired judge that openly admitted to approving most orders because the cost for being wrong was too high.
https://www.pacourts.us/news-and-statistics/news/news-detail...
One estimate that every 10-20 seizures saves one suicide. So clearly not living up to the more likely than not standard, or we would expect to see a closer to 50% result. This study also notes that the rate of firearm assault was too low to assess crime against others. You can also see some of how the process works without the protections on the criminal justice side (prosecutor statements).
https://scholarship.law.duke.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer...