The new LandCruiser 70 series matches exactly what you want. I believe you can buy them in many countries (U.S. not included).
https://www.caranddriver.com/news/a46001237/toyota-land-crui...
https://www.caranddriver.com/news/a46001237/toyota-land-crui...
The 4Runner and Lexus GX are also built on the LC platform and share tons of parts. If a 70 series fits your needs then either of those would be workable as well. Absolutely none of them would meet your stated fuel economy requirements however. :)
- Comes in (rear biased) AWD
- Can be found in stickshift
- Can get close to 30MPG in highway driving
- Can disable most of the stuff if you’re willing to get your hands dirty, and CarPlay is an easy add on head unit replacement
- B58 engine, which is pretty much proving to be one of the most reliable modern engines
- More power than you need on the streets, but you’re not paying for M parts and repairs
I traded mine in a few months ago since I wanted something else, but man do I think back on that car fondly. It is hands down the last good modern car - and if you get really lucky, you can find them in RWD!