Bucket argument
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I think that this might be a topic that's worth staying mostly-undecided-about.. despite all the strong opinions around! The fields of QM have to exist within something right?
https://www.amazon.com/Einsteins-Intuition-Visualizing-Natur...
I clicked through because I was interested to see if there was some new argument for absolute space, which would contradict our current understanding (unlikely). It was not, however. Instead it was a nuance of Newton's arguments for his basis of absolute space.
Geodesics in spacetime address the nature of motion through space and time.
The speeds involved are not relativistic, so this isn't a matter of special or general relativity. Except, of course, one needs to explain the conservation of momentum relative to the universe. Noether said that's because space is isotropic.
For the case of the water in the pail, each water 'particle' is moving linearly until it bumps into the wall of the pail which diverts it toward the center of the pail. This action causes accumulation near the wall. The same could be done without gravity and water would start as a disk perpendicular to a cylindrical wall then become a ring with the most spread out parts up against the cylinder wall. We can also replace gravity in the pail experiment with linear acceleration, as per the elevator thought experiment.
Edit: I guess the bit I'm not considering is if the local frame is rotating, and the pail appearing to rotate with respect to it, could the water be flat if the pail was non-rotating in the absolute frame? Seems really weird to picture it, but we could measure the radial acceleration of everything except the pail of water to see what's what.