most people think of a job as a lifetime thing whereas it is a short paid bootstrapping session to learn how the adult world works.
after that you should be finding edges and exploiting them on your own.
most people think of a job as a lifetime thing whereas it is a short paid bootstrapping session to learn how the adult world works.
after that you should be finding edges and exploiting them on your own.
This could be different elements at different times, e.g. you could lean really heavily on a friend group for a couple years, then later become religious and let your Church be your life's Northstar for a while as the friend group organically scatters, then later go deep with your family, or a sport, or travel, or whatever.
Right now it seems like your job is probably filling that "reliable bright spot" role in your life, and imho it's not worth discarding that until another independent element is clearly ready to fill that "bright spot" role.