RoR was cool way back when, but these days I'm much happier using nodejs with a framework like Adonis
If performance is very important there are better options like Rust or Go, but otherwise RoR is my go to. Pretty much everything you need is baked into the framework and it's still being actively developed. Some of the new stuff is pretty great like Turbo frames and streams.
I respect that you enjoy working in Nodejs but Nodejs frameworks are just so barebones in my experience. I haven't tried Adonis but I still remember when I was looking how to parse query params in Koa. The official docs said to use a third party lib or regex them yourself from the request string...like why would I even use a framework at that point?
It's wild how people insist on using less-good tooling because that's what they've heard they are supposed to do... and that that's as good as they are going to get.
It's not!