Virtual threads are nice for unblocking legacy code but they aren't without issues. There are better options for new code with less trade offs on the jvm as well. I've recently been experimenting with jasync-postgresql (there's a mysql variant as well) as an alternative to JDBC in Kotlin. It's a nice library. It does have some limitations and is a bit on the primitive side. But it appears to be somewhat widely used in various database frameworks for Scala, Java, and Kotlin.
Databases and database frameworks are an area on the JVM where there just is a huge amount of legacy code built on threads and blocking IO. It's probably one of the reasons Oracle worked on virtual threads as migrating away from these frameworks is unlikely to ever happen in a lot of code bases. So, waving a magic wand and making all that code non blocking is very attractive. But of course that magic has some hard limitations and synchronize blocks are one of those. I imagine they are working on improving that further.