No I think you missed my point.
Probably I'm just making a bad job of explaining what I mean.
But I also suspect you're been primed to be on the defensive given how many people are attacking liberal values.
My point is this:
There is a growing rhetoric on the right of center that tries to frame "the left" as this obscure force that all sort of nefarious things. They take examples out if the most fringe corners and use them to fuel their base. Like the guy that insisted to have a litter box in the workplace because he identified as a cat.
But none of that shit is a "policy of the left". None of that shit is anything you be worried about. That's my point.
There is almost nothing fueled by sincere progressive values that one should be afraid of. The left is not raping babies or whatnot.
In that sense, the only strategic mistake that people on the left of center are doing is to feed the trolls on the right.
I understand that you're framing this as "well, fuck them, _they_ are the trolls don't blame me for feeding them, I'm the victim don't blame me".
But that kind of logic works only when dealing with individuals. Our natural moral instincts are not adapted to dealing with massive societies with hundreds of million of people engaging in an information warfare of an unprecedented scale.
Every real fascist out there would be neutered if it wasn't for a number of people who have no clue about anything and are just passively going through their lives just passively following along whatever their social group is nudging them to follow.
Denying this fact and claiming that absolutely all people are 100% active political agents that are either 100% fascist or 100% anti-fascist is wishful thinking at best and a dangerous trap at worst.
If you want to make the world a better place you need to understand people and find compromises that get most people on board. If you're doing that somebody else will and some will not hesitate to leverage the lowest human instincts such as xenophobia to rally people on their side. I don't want to live in such a world