Like, little software shops which take on a stable number of projects / contracts / clients a year, focused on sustainability instead of pure profit, lose and gain people at a roughly 1:1 ratio, rarely downscale or upscale offices, have a relatively flat heierarchy, everyone is compensated realistically, reasonably and equitably, and the work is done at a rate that is a nice balance between interesting/challenging whilst relaxed enough to not cause burnout, with a sensible work/life balance. That's what I look for, and they're fucking havens.
Edit: my idealistic take on "I wish I could do software like a tradesperson" has prompted so many insightful comments looking at all sides of the equation! I will clarify a bit, first paragraph I'm lamenting specifically exponential growth a la shareholder nonsense. Paragraph 2 is "I am so tired, just pay me in line with interest rates to solve funky little code puzzles enough that I can keep the comfy roof over my head and have enough free time to go on my long runs and grow my vegetables" :-)