Well most of us have been very very lucky in life, we have won the lottery, but among other things:
* Born in a 1st world country
* Born in a wealthy enough family that can afford computers and education for their children
* Born with parents that are supportive of her actions
It's a very common misconception on Hacker News that we have started from nothing and if people don't succeed it's because they don't "try enough". If you really want to see nothing go to Africa and say you haven't been lucky in life. "Trying" for these people is way harder than YOUR trying and you have to realize that.
By the way I am in no way sour, it's just important to realize what we were given in life and stop giving lessons to everybody based on our limited experience. Just a little decency.