For incrementally backing up laptop data, the process needs to run on my laptop anyway, so I may as well just use Arq.
For NAS data that changes frequently enough to desire incrementals, choose Synology Hyperbackup.
For NAS data that doesn't change frequently and can just be sync'd, choose Synology Cloud Sync.
For NAS data that you don't need locally and only need to archive, choose Synology Cloud Sync with one-way-sync. (Less hassle than AWS Glacier.)
As for the cloud provider itself, I'm think I'll probably go with Wasabi, at $6/TB. I heard that Backblaze occasionally has weird gotchas that surprise people, like auto-deleting files from your backups that you delete locally, so I just feel cautious.
Main things giving me pause: minimum block size on Wasabi (I'm sure some of my files are smaller; don't know what sticker shock I'll experience), and unsure why I should consider a command line tool like restic instead of the above.