The pitfalls are:
1. It's SQLite, with everything that entails. The schema migration story is "SSH into your production machine and run your migration scripts."
2. Every deploy to a new machine involves downloading your database from S3. Zero-downtime deploys aren't possible because you need to pause writes, sync, and then download the DB to the new container or whatever. If your database is gigabytes (mine is kilobytes), this could be a deal breaker.
Honestly, if managed databases were as cheap as SQLite hosting, I'd just use a managed database, because the SQLite ops workflows are too weird. But I'm confident in the reliability and performance of the site, and it is genuinely cheaper to not run a managed database, which is important for hobby projects.
(Standard internet comment disclaimer that I am a fallible human who might have missed something or am somehow doing it wrong...)
I have no affiliation with Litestream but I was convinced that SQLite could be a viable db option from this great post about it called Consider SQLite: https://blog.wesleyac.com/posts/consider-sqlite
Using SQLite with Litestream helped me to launch the site quickly without having to pay for or configure/manage a db server, especially when I didn't know if the site would make any money and didn't have any personal experience with running production databases. Litestream streams to blackblaze b2 for literally $0 per month which is great. I already had a backblaze account for personal backups and it was easy to just add b2 storage. I've never had to restore from backup so far.
There's a pleasing operational simplicity in this setup — one $14 DigitalOcean droplet serves my entire app (single-threaded still!) and it's been easy to scale vertically by just upgrading the server to the next tier when I started pushing the limits of a droplet. DigitalOcean's "premium" intel and amd droplets use NVMe drives which seem to be especially good with SQLite.
One downside of using SQLite is that there's just not as much community knowledge about using and tuning it for web applications. For example, I'm using it with SvelteKit and there's not much written online about deploying multi-threaded SvelteKit apps with SQLite. Also, not many example configs to learn from. By far the biggest performance improvement I found was turning on memory mapping for SQLite.
Happy to answer any questions you might have!
My goal is also to try and create an app that I don't expect to immediately be successful so it has to be cheap to run in the long term!
My questions are around that. Are there good solutions for migrations? Has anyone made it relatively easy to handle in terms of deploy/scale/manage?
I've used it in a few places myself, but I've not yet released a non-beta version of it. I'm close to having the confidence to say other people should use it too!