I left CA in 2016 and experienced none of this. I assume there is some specific trigger, or taxpayer ghosting, needed to trigger this?
Edit
My friend recently had his funds seized from when he moved out for the 2016 year. He got 1/2 back but his paperwork is not in order & got cleaned out. Currently does not have enough to hire a CPA to get the rest.
Btw, I had already done several of the steps listed in https://www.modernfp.com/blog/leaving-ca
I will never move back to CA. Another word of warning from a CHP officer. If you happen to drive in CA as a former resident, make sure you have your out of state license on you. If you forget your wallet, you could be cited for driving with an expired license.