Apple is well supported in that it's "better than everyone except Nvidia", and that's really only because a bunch of well known boutique developers seem to like the high quality of apple laptops and refuse to budge about mainly developing on them.
Still, trying to do significantly fun or interesting things in any major AI ecosystem, such as the Stable Diffusion one through Automatic1111 or with the LLMs in Oobabooga (which supports nearly all LLM backends i.e. llama.cpp), will be mostly crippled and stuff will break in ways that simply don't happen to Nvidia hardware. I'll take the 2 4090s all day, because I know that quantization techniques which shouldn't even be possible (who knows maybethe fabled 1 bit quantization seems inevitable at this point) will make it possible for me to stuff even the most bloated LLM into my measly 48 GBs will be available on Nvidia first and Apple (maybe) second.