Butterfly Ideas
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>"...what I write in public ends up being on the very defensible end of the things I think"
Prior to that, all I remember is flame wars in random forums. Maybe I was young and dumb and baitable.
It was the exception rather than inevitable back then.
> I’ve been on the butterfly crushing end of this myself- I’m thinking of a particular case last year where my friend brought up an idea that, if true, would require costly action on my part. I started arguing with the idea, they snapped at me to stop ruining their dreams. I chilled out, we had a long discussion about their goals, how they interpreted some evidence, and why they thought a particular action might further said goals, etc.
Sometimes when I am thinking out loud, I am sounding out ideas I feel are pretty weak. These are "butterfly ideas".
I think it's a sign of maturity as a reader to be able to work around the bad to get to where one can see some of the good. This article is about letting that better nature in.
HN is one site where we really could permit some space & possibility better.
I think society's annealing could use more heat, and they provide.
It's a big problem, especially among people with no life (family, self-care habits), eg nerds with no purpose.
Making up a term just so you can continue jerking each other off intellectually wont help you with anything.
> Sometimes talking with my friends is like intellectual combat, which is great. I am glad I have such strong cognitive warriors on my side. But not all ideas are ready for intellectual combat. If I don’t get my friend on board with this, some of them will crush an idea before it gets a chance to develop, which feels awful and can kill off promising avenues of investigation.
That doesn't describe anything like what you've described in your comment.