I know it's easy to imagine that the product you think is "a car" is finished, but product categories evolve. People want their devices to do different things today than they did 20 years ago, and next year will be more changes. Connectivity isn't going away, the market has spoken.
Reliability and repairability going down is not "evolution" in any sense.
And the market hasn't really said anything when those things have been pushed into consumers without much choice. Saying "the market has spoken" in this case is like saying the market has spoken when someone claims that slapping a fruit logo is enough to sell computers. Turns out the choice of which car to buy is non-binary, it's not "internet connected" vs "non internet connected".
Having an interface to turn seat heating on/off if simple stuff. Having the upgradeability, DRM, the subscription thing, and circumvention protection is significantly more complicated.
Sure. And Ford messed up. But the request upthread wasn't for a vehicle with robust software update semantics, it was for a vehicle without connectivity. That's not going to sell well.
In the sense that a market is made up of buyers and sellers, and the sellers have decided to offer no other option yes.
I think the issue is more of the design and ownership of these things. No one wants an update bricking their car. I doubt a lot of people here would object to a discrete subsystem where you could poll charge status, turn on heating etc.
Whatever your line is in the sand for tech integration, you have many great options from before that point.
Would you also propose a calculator as a valid alternative to a locked down tablet/phone/pc that you can't install your own software on?
People want modern cars, modern TVs and modern computers. They don't want a steam engine. But modern doesn't mean "crap that the manufacturer can brick remotely".
https://foundation.mozilla.org/en/blog/privacy-nightmare-on-...
I want to have the final say about what happens with the things I own. I want to be able to rely on them.