Nothing like having your dashboard go black at 70 mph to instill confidence in your car.
Is yours a MCU1 model with problematic eMMC that has worn out?
Major complaint here: when it does happen, it takes minutes to reset, and you can't see your speed and get no audible cues for what is going on with the car. It is an extremely dangerous failure state.
That sounds like some software guy somewhere didn't realize that those seats in the car aren't only for carrying air but that actual people or, gosh, occasional other drivers ride in them too.
Sadly this is rather symptomatic for many things coming out of Silicon Valley (not only Tesla).
I was sure you were going to complain about the windshield wipers "automatic" mode
Tesla's supercharger map shows which stations are open to non-Teslas so far: https://www.tesla.com/findus?v=2&bounds=66.26595543136888%2C...
Their software is buggy and has a lot of friction points compared to mobile phones which is a high bar to cross.
The catch is that a lot of the other car manufacturers supports CarPlay and Android Auto which allow you to have a better experience.