Also: "I drive 40 minutes each way" 1hr20min of driving is not going to translate into 1hr30min of biking, with the only possible exception being if you spent the entire car ride in gridlock or parking lots.
And: "I couldn't find a job here, but I could find a job there". That you can find a job within 20 miles does not help him.
"You are supposed to spend that 40 minutes of driving concentrating on driving. Not talking on cell phones, not texting, not talking, not even listening to music but DRIVING."
Yeah, and I'm not supposed to eat pizza or drink so much...