I also lament the idea that we should keep our heads on a swivel. Being a victim forever, or forever expecting to become one, sounds like an utterly terrible way to live. Having strong boundaries and knowing when to say no is really important, but I don't think that's nearly the same thing.
If you want people to read your comment a certain way, you should say so up front.
For all of its faults the Internet has been very good at revealing what does happen - sometimes - as opposed to what should happen.
Nonsense.
Kids these days are as well informed and trained on threats as any kids in living memory. They aren’t even permitted to walk to school, in many cases, and are trained on how to cope with people coming to their schools to kill them.