The hard part is building on it.
They’re in shrinking rural towns and small cities. The schools are bad and there’s no economy to speak of.
… but they’re better than some imagined frontier. Yet nobody’s moving there. Which suggests a lack of places to escape to cheaply may not be the problem.
It's funny, I live in NYC, where the population has declined by over 5% since 2020 (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38698353) and supposedly everyone is working from home, and yet I'm still sitting in traffic every day. The buses are still crowded. The subways are still crowded.
Density is horrible for qol in my experience.
$1,200/month for 3bd/2.5ba, 1,200sqft with hardwood flooring and free off-street assigned parking 15 minutes from the city. Lived there 3 years and moved out in 2018, loved it. Now I pay $1,200/month to live a 600sqft studio apartment behind a Costco an hour from the city.
To this day I don't understand why this style of housing isn't more popular.
You answered your own question.
> They all looked the same so there was no stigma as to who had section 8 and who didn't
Part of the point of segregating by income is precisely to distinguish the haves from the have-nots.
If the surroundings are low quality, then yes, density sucks. If the surrounding area is high quality, density makes things better. More things closer. It's awesome.
Money talks too. The denser, walkable areas are always the most expensive. Market is underserved in much of this country.
As to why, it's really all about tradeoffs. If you live in a nice house with land, you'll be far from city amenities. If you want to be close to city amenities (concerts, theaters, stadiums, bars, restaurants, shops, activities, people, being able to walk to places, public transit, etc), then you need to live somewhere dense.
Dense areas are popular because there are so many cool things nearby you. That's just not possible if you live in the suburbs.
Sure, most people would probably prefer a single-family home also in a dense area. But that's just physically impossible. A subdivision of nice homes with yards doesn't even contain enough people to support its own infrastructure (roads, pipes, etc) let alone a vibrant local restaurant scene. So you must drive everywhere you go, which has some serious downsides.
So many people prefer being able to walk to a coffee shop or to the bar without needing to drive. There's a reason 15-minute cities are growing in popularity.
Just to start, this doesn't match reality. Dense cities get a lot of attention. Look at the SF Bay area. SF city is expensive yes, and it's dense. The median home is about 1.2 million. The rest of the bay's home prices suggest that people prefer less dense living. Atherton with a median home prices over 7million, palo alto at over 3 million, los altos is 3.5 million, menlo park over 2.8million, mill valley almost 2 million.
The most expensive places to live in the US are never its major cities.
Doesn't "like" have to be assessed in comparison to the available alternatives? I mean, I don't like having to cook (minimally), empty the dishwasher, and other daily household chores, but I prefer those things to store-bought meals, eating on paper plates with plastic utensils, and/or hiring a daily housekeeper.
Given equal opportunity, I would bet most people would choose to live in a ranch style house with land around it than an apartment.
Also - I think this is a popular point as most people would agree with this Malthusian outlook. (And by the way, Malthus was always wrong in his predictions, but that didn't impact his credibility or the longevity of this idea.) Everyone, it seems, promotes this outlook - Bill Gates, David Attenborough, most politicians - I never hear the opposite idea that we should increase the population (except via immigration).