Because your comments lack citations, my rebuttal will too…
> As a medical diagnosis it is consistently overdiagnosed, and dangerously underdefined.
Maybe in your population, but it is under-diagnosed in the following populations: adults, women/girls, prison population, gifted/talented students, populations with an exceptional stigma towards mental disorders.
I don’t understand what you mean by ADHD being under-defined.
> You will suffer from the "symptoms" of ADHD.
Suffering the symptoms and having those symptoms significantly interfere with your life is what it means to have ADHD.
> Typically, unstable or volatile childhood environments are seen as a key driver of this.
This is false. Child rearing has little to no effect on having the disorder. However, genetic variation contributes to (i.e. has an effects size of) at least 70% of the disorder.
> Posses an above average IQ
IQ is negatively correlated with ADHD… are you discussing a specific type of person with ADHD with the second paragraph?