You’re out of home 10 at best (from 8 to 18). Assuming you sleep a regular amount of hours (8h), that leaves you 6h/day for yourself and your family. That’s not enough in my opinion. Luckily for me, covid happened and now I work remotely (so I regained the commute hours and honestly, I work 6 focused hours instead of 8h since that was the amount of hours I was working at the office anyway without interruption). In this setup you could regain up to 4h of the day for you/family, so 10h in total.

Find a remote job.